Frequently Asked Questions

What is mediation?

Mediation is a confidential process where parties are given the space and opportunity to talk through a dispute, with a view to reaching a mutually acceptable agreement. As a mediator, my job is to help guide the process by ensuring each party has a voice. It's informal and flexible - and importantly, agreements are voluntary.

How long does mediation take?

It depends on the issue. Some mediations wrap up in a few hours, while others may take most of the day. I offer flexible options - up to 4 hours or a full-day session (up to 8 hours). I usually keep the day free so we’re not under pressure and have the space to continue if progress is being made.

Where does the mediation take place?

There are a few flexible options. Parties may agree on a suitable location - such as a lawyer’s office or business space - or I can arrange a neutral venue with your agreement. Any venue costs are the shared responsibility of the parties involved.

If we’re meeting in person, the space must have at least two separate sound proof rooms (and ideally a shared conference room).

I also offer online mediations.

What if we don’t reach an agreement?

Even if you don’t reach a final resolution, mediation often helps narrow the issues and clear up misunderstandings. Many participants find that with some space and reflection, they’re able to sort things out not long after the session ends.

Is an agreement made at mediation legally binding?

An agreement made at mediation is a good faith agreement only. I can assist the parties to document what has been agreed.

For an agreement to have any weight, it must be signed by all parties.

You may wish to seek legal advice before considering any next steps in formalising any agreement made.

Do I need a lawyer?

No, you don’t need one to take part.

You are welcome to seek legal advice at any stage before, during, or after the mediation. In any event, I will encourage you to seek legal advice if you haven’t already.

Do you give legal or financial advice?

No - I remain independent and impartial. My role is to support the process and help both parties communicate effectively, not to give advice or opinions on the law or financial matters.

What is Pre FDR?

Prior to an FDR mediation, I will schedule a 1:1 appointment with each party. This confidential conversation allows me to understand your situation and assess whether mediation is appropriate and safe.

Is mediation confidential?

Yes, with a few exceptions. What is said during mediation is generally confidential and can’t be used in court. Before we begin, you’ll be asked to sign a confidentiality agreement and I will explain the exceptions to you.

Do I have to be in the same room as the other party?

Not necessarily. We can all be in the same room, or I can move between you in separate rooms (known as shuttle mediation) for part or all of the mediation. Online mediation is also an option.

Can I bring a support person with me?

Yes, but they can only sit in on the mediation if the other party agrees. If there’s no agreement, the support person can wait nearby if you’d like someone with you outside the session.

When both parties attend with lawyers, they are able to be present.