What is mediation?

Mediation is a confidential process where parties are given the space and opportunity to work through a dispute, with a view to reaching a mutually acceptable agreement. As a mediator, my job is to help guide the process. It's informal and flexible - and most importantly, you stay in control of the outcome, not a judge.

In matters involving the care of children, the best interests of the child or children are the primary consideration. I’ll always approach these mediations with sensitivity and care, keeping the focus on what’s safe, practical, and supportive for the children involved.

How long does mediation take?

It depends on the issue. Some mediations wrap up in a few hours, while others may take most of the day. I offer flexible options - up to 4 hours or a full-day session (up to 8 hours). I usually keep the day free so we’re not under pressure and have the space to continue if progress is being made.

Where does the mediation take place?

There are a few flexible options. You and the other party can agree on a suitable location - such as a lawyer’s office or business space - or I can arrange a neutral venue with your agreement. Any venue costs are the shared responsibility of the parties involved.

If we’re meeting in person, the space must have at least two separate sound proof rooms and ideally a shared conference room, especially if both parties will be attending together.

What if we don’t reach an agreement?

Even if you don’t reach a final resolution, mediation often helps narrow the issues and clear up misunderstandings. Many participants find that with some space and reflection, they’re able to sort things out not long after the session ends.

Is an agreement made at mediation legally binding?

Not automatically. If you reach an agreement, I can help you document it. For an agreement to have any weight it must be signed by all parties.

In family matters, a signed parenting plan is legally significant but not binding. If needed, your lawyer can draft consent orders to be formalised by the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia.

Do I need a lawyer?

No, you don’t need one to take part - but you’re welcome to get legal advice at any stage before, during, or after the mediation. You might choose to speak with a lawyer before signing anything. In any event, I will encourage you to seek legal advice if you haven’t already. Your lawyer is also welcome to attend the mediation in person should you wish.

Do you give legal or financial advice?

No - I remain independent and impartial. My role is to support the process and help both parties communicate effectively, not to give advice or opinions on the law or financial matters.

Can we talk separately before mediation?

Yes - absolutely. In family matters, this is a standard and essential part of the process. I’ll meet with each person separately before the joint session to understand the background and make sure it’s safe and appropriate to proceed. In other types of disputes, private pre-mediation conversations can still be really useful. You’re always welcome to request a private and confidential chat with me at any stage. Anything you say privately won’t be shared without your permission.

Is mediation confidential?

Yes. What is said during mediation is confidential and can’t be used in court, except in rare situations like a risk of harm. Before we begin, you’ll be asked to sign a confidentiality agreement.

Do I have to be in the same room as the other party?

Not necessarily. We can all be in the same room, or I can move between you in separate rooms (known as shuttle mediation) for part or all of the mediation. Online mediation is also an option. During the session, I may speak with each party privately at times to check in or help move things forward. I’ll also keep an eye on the balance in the room and adjust things accordingly so everyone has an equal opportunity to be heard.

Can I bring a support person with me?

Yes, but they can only sit in on the mediation if the other party agrees. If there’s no agreement, the support person can wait nearby if you’d like someone with you outside the session.

Do I need to give you any documents before the day?

Yes please. It helps to send me a short summary at least 24 hours beforehand - just a general overview of the situation and what you'd like to achieve. That way, we can use the mediation time more effectively.

For property settlements following separation, it is particularly helpful for me to receive all relevant financial documents in advance.

What is an intake?

In family matters following a relationship breakdown - such as care arrangements or property division mediations - you’ll be invited to take part in a private intake session before mediation day. This confidential conversation allows me to understand your situation and assess whether mediation is appropriate and safe.

As a registered Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner, I’m required to conduct this intake. Anything you share with me during this session will remain confidential from the other party.